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Stress Management

IS THIS “STRESS” ???

Slamming on the brakes as a dog darts in front of the car
Accepting an award for outstanding service
Meeting a crucial deadline at work
Winning a close tennis match or golf game
Presenting a proposal to your work group
Managing aging parents, an active family and a demanding career


YES... YOUR REACTION IS A STRESS RESPONSE!


Stress is the body’s response to any stimulation that will initiate a physical response by the nervous system. It can be both positive and negative, depending how it is perceived. The body will respond to a perceived (real or imagined) threat with a “fight or flight” response.

Your sympathetic nervous system secretes stress hormones, epinephrine and norepinephrine, to prepare you for battle or flight from the enemy. Your heart rate and blood pressure increase, breathing quickens, muscles tense, pupils dilate, mouth goes dry, and digestion stops as the blood diverts to your muscles.

As your body relaxes, your stress response shifts to a state of relaxation that is controlled by your parasympathetic nervous system. You maintain a steady heart rate and blood pressure, breathing slows, muscles relax, and your digestion resumes. The parasympathetic nervous system responds unconsciously, without your awareness. You aren’t aware of the rise and fall of your chest as you breathe, the beating of your heart, or the tensing and relaxing of your muscles.

YOUR BODY’S RESPONSE TO STRESS

These miraculous processes occur all through out the day, unconsciously, as you encounter stressful or peaceful moments. Positive stress, known as eustress, is productive and energizing, allowing clarity, concentration, and focus. Your body is designed to handle this for short periods of time.

However, in today’s hectic, fast–paced society, people tend to remain in a “fight or flight” response, which can be very wearing on their bodies and immune system. When stress becomes prolonged, it shifts to a negative impact, draining your energy, sapping your body’s defenses, and leaving you vulnerable to illness. If stress continues long-term, you may become prone to stress-related disorders…

SYMPTOMS OF STRESS... Can you relate to these red flags???

Physical
  • Headaches
  • Aches and pains, esp. in the neck and back
  • Elevated blood pressure and heart rate
  • Insomnia or sleep disturbance
  • Indigestion or diarrhea
  • Increase or decrease in appetite, with weight gain or loss
  • Shortness of breath or rapid breathing
Emotional
  • Anxious feelings
  • Sadness/Depression
  • Sense of hopelessness
  • Lack of joy or spontaneity
  • Irritability
  • Frustration/ intolerance of others
Behavioral
  • Outbursts of anger
  • Beginning or increase in use of alcohol or drugs
  • Loss of efficiency at work or school
  • Withdrawal from social situations
Mental/ Cognitive
  • Difficulty concentrating
  • Distractibility
  • Forgetfulness
  • Preoccupation with certain thoughts, especially negative ones
  • Difficulty making minor decisions
It is important to recognize negative stress responses that impact your emotional, physical, spiritual, and social well-being.
When you are aware of how you respond to stress, you have the power to CHANGE your response to stress!

Learning stress management techniques will teach you to turn OFF your sympathetic nervous system... allowing your parasympathetic nervous system to maintain calm and peaceful control. You will be in CONTROL of unconscious processes and take charge of your body’s response to all the stresses you encounter in your world!!!!!


SIMPLE STEPS TO ALLEVIATE STRESS


CHANGE your lifestyle
  • Caring for your body… the temple of your soul
    o Exercise… a 15 minute walk, a yoga class, a gym work-out
    o Eat healthy, nutritious foods
    o Sleep well… prioritize enough rest to feel refreshed
    o Nurture yourself… take “me” time to relax and reflect
  CHANGE your body’s response to stress
  • Body awareness...
    o Tune into HOW you physically respond to stress…tight shoulders, clenched teeth, upset stomach?
    o Practice diaphragmatic breathing… deep, slow breaths
    o Learn relaxation techniques
    o Train your body to “let go” of tension
CHANGE your outlook and feelings
  • Emotional Wellness... Live, love and laugh
    o Create balance with work and home
    o Laugh at yourself… don’t take life too seriously
    o Prioritize family and friends
    o Be creative… paint, write, sing, dance, design
    o Soul support… connect with your higher power
CHANGE your way of thinking
  • Mind matters...
    o Let go of worries that you can’t control…
    o Become an optimist… see the glass as half full
    o Break those mind tapes… if only, should have, etc
    o Be assertive… speak your mind, it will free your spirit

    o Reframe your negative thoughts to positive thoughts
     
These simple steps… CREATING CHANGE WITHIN… will lead to success, contentment and fulfillment!

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